The Tenacious Mama: Confessions of An Adoptive Mother

E4: I became a mother for selfish reasons

Leslie Season 1 Episode 4

Confession: I became a mother for selfish reasons, not necessarily that I wanted to give a child a better life.  When Lane was little, people would often say, "He's so lucky to have you!" and my response was, "No, I'm the lucky one.  He made me a mama."  I also share all of the experiences that prepared me for motherhood, a blog entry from my baby shower 14 years ago, and a list of all the precious moments that I hope will flash through my mind when my life flashes before my eyes.  

Included in this episode:

*what prepared me for motherhood: babysitting, mentoring, Big Brothers Big Sisters, being a step-parent, 

*what led me to the foster-to-adopt journey to motherhood

*blog about my baby shower written on 11/15/10: Now is right on time

*I started with such optimism and gratitude<suffered trauma due to his explosive temper in middle school

*an extensive list of beautiful memories shared together

My audacious intent for this podcast is to be a beacon of hope for parents and guardians like me, who are raising wounded children and doing their best to stay afloat.  I have found my way from surviving to thriving and you can, too!


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Thanks for listening, Beloveds. Please take care of yourselves; if you don’t do it, who will? Keep advocating for your child. And, most importantly, stay tenacious!

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